HOLY frak Cynthia Nixon if you think you’re gay by choice then you’re not gay at all, more likely a bi-sexual confused woman who has been using men when she was with one for 15 years. But to tell someone who being gay is a choice you’re seriously delusional. I certainly would not choose this lifestyle. The hatred, the bigotry, the bullying. I just hope you stay clear of the NOH8 project. My view of you has now seriously diminished.